Ok so...boys!

This update on the MALES in my life is about 3-4 wks overdue! In fact, so late, that a few are gone now. hehe!

So first I'll break 'em down so you can refer back if it gets too complicated.
Dominic: 31, Libra, ex marine, no kids, never married, has traveled the world, cute.
Lloyd: 34, Virgo, has 2 kids, loan officer, divorced, cute, TALL!

Daryl, Ven, and Scott I recently cut loose b/c it was mucho DIFFICULT keeping up with that many men. I hadn't even met any of them in person but they really started to bore me. They all took it well...except Scott. wah wah!

I met all these guys on www.match.com except Dominic. He really is just a friend, a good friend. A hiking buddy and we do other stuff too! I was just "being friends" with Lloyd and Daryl, not technically "dating" b/c I wanted no pressure. But I got so into Lloyd that I chose to not even hang out with Daryl. So now there's really just Lloyd, who from here I'll call L (b/c I've never had an "L") and I really like him.

I almost wish I didn't like him. We got to know each other for 3 weeks via email, text, and chat. Then we went out first time Monday night. We went bowling and I have NEVER done that in my life. And I swear to God that halfway through the 2nd game, I WAS WINNING! Then he kicked my butt. But our attitude together is amazing. We joke, we laugh, we talk serious, we flirt, we talk politics, the convo is just all over the spectrum and that is a major requirement for me. We hung out after that and it was fun, I find him hilarious!

Then today, WEd, I was in Tempe running errands and we were texting so we met up for lunch. He's such a sweetheart! He's paid for everything, super polite, but not "boring, good guy polite". ya know? Anyway, he's cool. I think I'm going over tonight to his place to catch a movie and then we are going OUT on (I guess) a second date (??) this Friday night. The reason I say "I guess" is b/c I told him when we first started talking that I wanted to be friends first, focus on developing a friendship and see what happens. He totally agreed. After hanging out our first night (first date??) I totally wanted to date him. B/c when I bowled and sucked he'd either be dramatically supportive and encouraging (You rock Liz, that pin just jumped out of your way) or he'd rag me jokingly (wow! don't know if I've ever seen someone do so crappy? haha!) lol! I find him charming! So you guys think I should just say "Are we dating?" Or "Can we date now?" LOL! I have no damn clue! It's retarded I even write a dating column, oh wait, maybe I can just ponder what I'd tell someone to do if someone else was asking ME! Hmmm...good idea!!!

So my near future advice to myself is: Be chill, don't fall (too fast or at all), be myself, take lots of pics (of him, hehe), don't be a Hoe bag too much (only on days that end in "ay") and HAVE A GOOD TIME!


My band:
She's doin' "OK", not perfect. I could use plenty more restriction but I have to wait until I can afford it, maybe a few weeks from now. Then I'll do another fill asap. I'm staying below 1500 calories on all days and below 1200 on good days!  I'm getting about 3-4 days of activity a week...whether I go to the gym or not. I'm trying to just lead an active life PERIOD! I started seeing a Trainer (FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER) this past Friday. I told him my whole life story and my goals and he says they are very realistic and he thinks with my past and current devotion that I could be their "lil prodigy", right on!!!

Psychology class; I'm behind. I stucks but I got almost caught up yesterday and getting done a few assignments this evening should help me be ok. JUST now started falling behind in Anatomy, but only by like 2 assignments which I'll do tonight or tomorrow.  So I'm trying to not stress over it, just stay calm and get the work done! Anatomy is still a ton of fun, I LOVE learning about the human body.

Ok so I can't remember if I forgot any other new news, I hope not. But I think next time I have a free chance I'll shoot a vlog! ;) 16 days to Chicago!!!

xoxo,
Lizzle