Violated
Why Violated? B/c rude people are on MY BLOG where I share my most personal details of my life.
I was not planning on blogging tonight, but someone provoked me. Someone stumbled upon my blog in the last few days and felt the need to spew their hatred onto my site, I'm assuming in an effor to ruin my day. Or maybe just make themselves feel better about their miserable life.
The last post w/ the pics of me in the dress pants and then in the 16 jeans, they said "just b/c they zip doesn't mean they fit. i wouldn't wear those out of the house." so yes I went ahead and approved the comment, b/c I think it's fair for everyone to know that there are people out here in our blog land that feel the need to piss on someone elses parade.
No matter what, i am still stoked about those pants! No matter what, I still love myself. No matter what, I know what it took for me to get here. I am aware that there are lifelong-skinny people who have no idea what it's like to be fat and are disgusted by fat people. I give them slack b/c they have no idea, they are just ignorant to the topic. But it really is a shame that someone wasted their time to do an anonymous post on my blog, just to make me feel one way or another.
I would like to add, I would never wear those pants outside of the house like that w/o a bra or spanx, haha, come on now! I wear spanx under EVERYTHING 24/7 even to the gas station. So no, when I do wear those to work (probably tomorrow) I will look fine as hell, all smoothed out, and boobies all nice and fake perky and that person will still be leading a sad life.
I just felt the need to share that and how I feel about it b/c no matter even if we've lost 100 lbs and weight 200 lbs now, we're still FAT to those people. We are still targets. So it's just sad that people don't have the ability to see and acknowledge the weight you've lost and see it as a positive thing rather than a "she's still fat" thing. Whatevs!
I hope everyone has a great night, I know I will thinking about all I've done and all I'm capable of b/c I'm a happy, healthy, optimistic person w/ a kind spirit. I am confident I will carry on, and continue to truly enjoy my life!
xoxo,
Liz
I was not planning on blogging tonight, but someone provoked me. Someone stumbled upon my blog in the last few days and felt the need to spew their hatred onto my site, I'm assuming in an effor to ruin my day. Or maybe just make themselves feel better about their miserable life.
The last post w/ the pics of me in the dress pants and then in the 16 jeans, they said "just b/c they zip doesn't mean they fit. i wouldn't wear those out of the house." so yes I went ahead and approved the comment, b/c I think it's fair for everyone to know that there are people out here in our blog land that feel the need to piss on someone elses parade.
No matter what, i am still stoked about those pants! No matter what, I still love myself. No matter what, I know what it took for me to get here. I am aware that there are lifelong-skinny people who have no idea what it's like to be fat and are disgusted by fat people. I give them slack b/c they have no idea, they are just ignorant to the topic. But it really is a shame that someone wasted their time to do an anonymous post on my blog, just to make me feel one way or another.
I would like to add, I would never wear those pants outside of the house like that w/o a bra or spanx, haha, come on now! I wear spanx under EVERYTHING 24/7 even to the gas station. So no, when I do wear those to work (probably tomorrow) I will look fine as hell, all smoothed out, and boobies all nice and fake perky and that person will still be leading a sad life.
I just felt the need to share that and how I feel about it b/c no matter even if we've lost 100 lbs and weight 200 lbs now, we're still FAT to those people. We are still targets. So it's just sad that people don't have the ability to see and acknowledge the weight you've lost and see it as a positive thing rather than a "she's still fat" thing. Whatevs!
I hope everyone has a great night, I know I will thinking about all I've done and all I'm capable of b/c I'm a happy, healthy, optimistic person w/ a kind spirit. I am confident I will carry on, and continue to truly enjoy my life!
xoxo,
Liz
OMG Liz!! I can't believe (well, I guess I can, I just always try to give others the benefit of the doubt, that they are decent & that if they can't say something nice, they would know better than say anything at all) that they would try to deflate your high about yourself!!
ReplyDeleteThat is just cruel & unnecessary. Then to not be brave enough to show their face (so to speak) & to hide behind ANONYMOUS!! I agree, this is like being violated. I wonder how they would feel if something like this happened to them?
Don't believe what they said, you are right, you have lost so much weight & you look totally fabulous as you are right now!!
Big Teddy Bear Hugs!!
You are beautiful, just because someone else is ugly don't let them take you down :)
ReplyDeleteamen sista!
ReplyDeleteSeriously Lizzie,
ReplyDeleteDon't give this loser another thought. People like this (and I've dealt with a few) don't see their comments as hurtful - they just think they are telling it like it is and it's wrong wrong wrong - those kinds of idiots of the world have no sense of self and never will. Hold your head up high at your accomplishments so far and be damned with anonymous!!
Merry Christmas to you too!!
Cara xxx
I have been wondering when something like this would happen to me. It is bound to happen if you are out there and proud ya know! You are a better person than I am bc I would not have approved that comment! I would have said NO to that!
ReplyDeleteI just felt the need to approve it b/c this blog is my honest place. And that is honestly part of the process, part of people (outsiders) not understanding what it is we go through.
ReplyDeletethanks everybody for the kind words! I let it roll off my back after I got it out in the blog. I feel super, uber sexy today and I think that comment is why. I am wearing those trousers w/ 4 inch black slingback heels, peep toe, w/ a bow on top, and a beautiful black top w/ outrageous orange earrings. haha! I feel good and I took a pic this morning so I'll share it later.
Also.....this morning on my way to the boys daycare I gave this guy a second look in this cool old truck b/c the truck was cool, he starred back and revved his motor for me! wooo baby! haha! he was old and ugly but at least he thought i was hot, that's all that matters! hehe!
I love the Ba-donka butt pic.. Gotta have some booty.. you got good shape.. The person/thing with the negativity is all about jealousy.. I have often wondered whether I should go private with my blog, but then I thought of the amount of people (silent observers/non commenters) that I may be helping would miss out.. I think you are doing super fantastic, and you dont need to explain yourself to anyone.. spanx or no spanks..
ReplyDeleteKeep up the good work..Merry Christmas
xx Nene